I've decided that I really don't like it when people say, "Well, that's not what you said" when, in fact, you are quite confident of what you said. Especially when it's said with a condescending tone. Especially when that person has awful communication skills. Even more so when it's your boss and if you defend yourself, it's considered insubordination.
It makes me want to strangle a pillow. Or drop kick a puppy.